Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Can You Wear Boots in the Summer?



Yes You Can! Some people automatically push their boots to the back of the closet and make them patiently wait for Fall. Boots can spice up an outfit faster in the Summer than in the Winter. Dresses and skirts are so hot in the fashion world right now, and although the perfect sandal is also a summertime necessity don't forget your boots. Another plus is that you can make the same dress you wore with sandals or heels look and feel different with boots.

There have been endless bloggers and persons with fashion advice bashing UGG's for a couple of years now. I don't think they should be worn for fashion in the summer, but I don't think they are going out of style no matter how much the runways hate them. I think you can still sport your UGG's on a cold morning headed for the tanning salon, or grabbing some coffee. I would advise not to wear them as a fashion piece out at night but you always have to show your trusty UGG's some love.

If you want to see some other amazing summer styles from head to toe worn with boots check in with Free People, they have been making outfits Boho Chic with boots for years now. At denM, we love it.

Peace.

Friday, April 17, 2009

What to Wear to a Funeral


I am going to a funeral this week and I met another girl that had one on the weekend. We were discussing what was appropriate attire for a funeral these days. I found myself giving what to wear a lot of thought. I even went as far as asking my mother if I must wear black. I finally did some research, and deeper thought on the issue, and decided to share what I found. Now I can help someone else out.

The first thing you need to do is think about the type of funeral you will be attending. If it is being held in a very formal environment such as a big Catholic church, or in a location known to be flooded with wealthy or upper class people then your attire will most likely need to be formal. Men, in this case, should wear black suits with black ties and ladies would be in longer, covering black dresses, with closed toed black heels and possibly a black hat. Think of a funeral scene from a movie and you'll get the picture.

However, the majority of funerals these days are not that formal. They are gatherings meant to mourn and celebrate the life lost and lived of the person who passed. What you wear should reflect the statement you are making in your thoughts regarding the person lost. It is easier to celebrate the life of a person lost after a very long and fruitful life, but it is very hard to celebrate the passing of a life cut too short. Many would not want to wear anything but black to a very upsetting funeral for a child, and you may want to wear something a little more fun to a funeral for your grandma who left quietly after many beautiful years. It is really is a matter of opinion but here are some basic rules.

• Never where bright colors such as hot pink or neon green, such a bold choice may be offensive to some. Obviously if hot pink was the deceased persons favorite color it would be appropriate for a bunch of girls to match wearing the color of her choice. There will be exceptions to the rules.
• Never dress sexy or provocative. You can never go wrong with being respectful & conservative.
• Check what church you will be going to. Some churches do not allow  your shoulders to show.
• Be clean and well put together. Shoes should be clean, and clothes should fit properly. Never wear athletic shoes or beat up jeans. 

Guys can wear a black button-up with no tie and the top button unbuttoned to look formal while feeling more casual. For a more casual look add nice jeans. For a  more formal look add slacks. Safe colors for girls include darker jewel tones, like deep purple, emerald, or even grey would be great. Many shades of blue are also very safe. The main point is not to dress to bright, or light. If you avoid being flashy or trashy and follow a few simple guide lines you can reflect your own personal style and feel comfortable. Don't stress, it's not as hard to get it right as we make it seem. 


Monday, April 13, 2009



Don't forget to accessorize this Spring. Amazing colors in bright hues are all the rage. I love it; from frilly dresses, vintage looking flowered headbands, all the way down to your yellow painted toes. Don't leave anything out. Grab a big, sparkly, hot pink cocktail ring and pair it with some hot pink studs in your ears and you won't go wrong. It feels good to be a girly-girl this Spring. denM & Nectar have all kinds of fun little things to choose from to celebrate the beautiful blue sky.